Vacations,
Travel and Gift Giving to Family and Friends
How many
business travelers have arrived home from a trip to hear, “what
did you bring me” from a daughter or son?
Perhaps
a friend or family member taking a vacation opened their suitcase
shortly after arriving at your home and pulled out gifts for you
as their way of saying “thank you” for your hospitality and opening
your home to me.
Or, after
you and your family arrived home from your wonderful vacation visiting
with friends out of state or in another country you logged onto
your home computer and ordered a special thank you gift to have
shipped to them.
Vacations
and summertime holiday trips often mean a time of meeting with new
and old friends, family that you have not seen in a long time and
the exchanging of gifts to show love or appreciation between on
another.
It’s
not just the thought that counts.
In some
cultures, the giving of gifts can get rather complicated especially
when it involves business dealings. A gift that is acceptable in
one area of the world may not be appropriate to give in another
area.
If you
are traveling to another country and plan to give a gift to your
host or business associate, you need to spend a little time doing
research on gift giving in that culture. As Americans we often have
very different ideas about what others might think is a good gift.
In some cultures that you might travel to, how you present your
gift is very important. In Japan for instance, you should always
present your gift to a person with both hands. In addition, when
you receive a gift there, you must accept in with both hands.
You need
to think about the possible message that the giving of a gift might
convey to someone in another culture. Giving the wrong gift at the
wrong time, especially in a business setting, can become awkward
or even offensive to the recipient. A good way to ensure that your
gift is appropriate in the setting and for the person you intend
to give it to is to check with others living in or acquainted with
that culture. Ask the salesperson at the shop you are buying from,
check with an associate that knows the area or read a book written
about the local customs for that culture.
Gift
giving to family and friends even in other parts of the world is
not going to be as complicated, hopefully, as it is when gifts are
given in a business setting. However, you might want to check and
make sure that you still are not doing something that could be culturally
inappropriate or offensive. Below is a short list of gift ideas
to watch out for.
Giving
of wine or alcohol may be OK with close friends and family but,
if that friend is an observant Muslim don’t do it. Muslims do not
drink alcohol. Giving of flowers is often a good gift idea but be
careful that they are not the variety that traditionally are used
at funerals or gravesides. In some countries like Germany, you should
always unwrap the flowers before you give them to someone. Sometimes
it is a numbers game when giving gifts such as flowers. In Europe
you should give an odd number of flowers and be careful that the
number translated in another language is not offensive or taken
as bad luck.
Taking
time to think about your gift giving, and how it relates to the
culture and the setting that you are giving it in can make the act
of giving a pleasant one. Everyone likes to receive gifts and some
are better received than others are. Giving gifts when you travel
or visit others can be a wonderful experience for everyone. You
can find many gift ideas at a new website, My Travel Gifts www.mytravelgifts.com
along with travel news and information about events, tours and attractions.
Henry
Griner is the owner of Mission Springs LLC located in Minnesota,
USA. Henry has been involved with computers and the Internet for
over 12 years. He has created dozens of websites for clients and
himself. Henry is currently employed as the Information Technology
Manager for the 5th largest furniture company in the United States.
In the past he has been an instructor a local community colleges
teaching Internet and computer courses. He has recently launched
a new website with travel information, news and gift giving ideas
for travelers. http://www.mytravelgifts.com
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